Dearly Joshua has vented her frustrations on social media about her ex-boyfriend, Ari Lasso, after their breakup. She claims she quit her job and sacrificed time with her child to care for the musician. The conflict escalated with Ari demanding photo deletions and the return of gifts.
Jakarta, January 12, 2026 – The post-breakup conflict between Dearly Joshua and Ari Lasso has resurfaced on social media. In an Instagram post, Dearly revealed the significant sacrifices she made during their relationship with the musician. She claimed to have stopped working for months to handle Ari's needs, from assisting with morning potty use to staying up late into the night.
"Pengen tahu saya, sebenarnya saya bikin salah apa, ya, sama kamu? Setiap hari saya nggak kerja, berapa bulan kantor nggak saya tengok, saya urusin kamu dari mulai pipis di pispot tiap pagi, sampai malam kadang sampai pagi saya tahan-tahan ketemu anak saya, paling ketemu anak juga sebentar banget," Dearly wrote, as quoted from her post.
Further, Dearly stated that even when her child was ill, Ari prevented her from going home. "Anak saya sakit pun kamu tahan saya biar nggak pulang. Kamu selalu bilang sama suami gak boleh membantah. Saya gak pernah selingkuh, ke Korea juga saya bayar sendiri semua," she added.
After the breakup, Ari demanded Dearly delete their photos from Instagram and return all gifts, including a book from 2020 and money. Dearly said she complied, though she felt it was unfair. "Semua uang, barang-barang hadiah dari kamu, sampai buku yang kamu kasih tahun 2020 kamu minta kembalikan semua, sudah aku kembalikan, kok diam saja?" she said.
She also highlighted Ari's harsh messages, such as using all caps and insulting her as an 'old woman, stupid, tacky'. "Kalau mau gaya preman ngancem-ngancem segala, coba ke laki-laki deh, pak, jangan ke perempuan," Dearly asserted. This revelation has drawn public attention to the celebrities' relationship dynamics.
