A woman says she forgave her husband after he cheated last year, but now he is resuming talks with the same woman who caused trouble. Auntie advises her not to waste time on someone unwilling to change. She states that trust is a heart's decision, not a begged-for gift.
In Taifa Leo's advice column, a woman known as 'Auntie' has counseled a reader facing marital issues. The woman stated: 'My husband cheated on me last year and we resolved our differences, but now he is starting to talk again with the woman who secretly caused us trouble. Should I continue to endure?'
Auntie responded: 'Sorry but someone who cheats once and fails to change is a sign of contempt. Don't waste time waiting for someone who doesn't want to be waited for. Trust is not a gift to be begged for, it's a heart's decision. If you see the same signs, prepare to protect yourself mentally and emotionally.'
This advice was prepared by Winnie Onyando, a writer for Taifa Leo. It covers topics like cheating in marriage, true love, counseling, and advice. This highlights challenges facing couples in Kenya, where trust and change are crucial for healthy relationships.
The column sheds light on handling repeated infidelity and encourages those in similar situations to seek guidance for self-protection.