Ruben Onsu finally spoke out about his marital conflict with Sarwendah in an interview on YouTube Nanda Persada on Tuesday, July 7, 2026.
In the conversation, Ruben recounted the moment he heard Sarwendah angrily refer to him negatively in front of their child during a discussion about house issues.
He said he only stayed silent and hung up the phone without responding. Ruben stated that children should not be caught in the middle of parental conflicts.
Ruben also touched on the viral nickname "Cong." He quoted Sarwendah saying: "Udah lu mau ngatain gua Cong, lu mau ngatain gua ini. Intinya lu makan dari uang bencong kan?"