In his discourse, Premanand Maharaj discussed the importance of birth charts but emphasized that marital success depends far more on mutual understanding than kundli matching. He stated that harmony in thoughts and patience bring peace to married life. In modern times, love marriages and live-in relationships give less weight to kundlis, yet they remain essential from a scriptural viewpoint.
In a discourse delivered in New Delhi on November 22, 2025, Premanand Maharaj described the birth chart as crucial in astrology for understanding an individual's nature, future, career, and marriage aspects. The kundli is prepared based on birth date, time, and place, reflecting planetary positions that influence life decisions.
In traditional marriages, matching kundlis through gun milan is considered useful, but Maharaj referenced modern contexts like love marriages and live-in relationships where it receives less emphasis. He advised that, per scriptural methods, one should still get a kundli made.
During the session, a person asked why conflicts arise in marital life even after kundli matching. Maharaj replied, "Kundli matching does not bring peace; peace comes when thoughts and behaviors align with each other." He stressed patience, understanding, and respect. If the wife uses harsh words, the husband should remain calm to handle the situation, as arguments never lead to solutions.
According to Maharaj, marital success hinges not on the kundli but on similarity in thoughts, the ability to accept faults, cooperation, dialogue, and prudence. While the kundli can offer guidance, the strength of a relationship builds from mutual conduct and respect.