A viral video of a child's baptism has spread widely, in which a boy told the priest he wanted to be Messi instead of Christian. The innocent anecdote drew laughs, but prompted writer Lien Estrada to reflect on constraints on individual expression in Cuban society.
The incident took place during a baptism when the priest asked the child if he wanted to be Christian. In response, the boy said: “I want to be Messi,” referring to Argentine footballer Lionel Messi. The statement drew laughs from those present, the priest, and online viewers, as recounted by Lien Estrada in her diary published on Havana Times on January 28, 2026.
Upon seeing the video, Estrada stated: “I also want to be Messi.” However, she regretted that in the Cuban context, such a wish might not be met with humor but possible punishment. In socialist Cuba, she argues, the common good prevails over the individual, and expressing personal desires is frowned upon. Mental structures must be rigidly defined, with politics permeating all aspects of life, from friendships to family.
The author describes how people are born to fulfill social duty, without questioning. In past generations, dissent was met with calls to overthrow Fidel Castro or leave the country. Today, many choose to emigrate, celebrating the success of those who escape while mourning those who perish in the attempt, such as in seas or jungles.
Living without the freedom to decide who to be is extremely difficult, Estrada notes, leading some to suicide. Yet, history is not immutable: changes have occurred, such as allowing the sale of houses and cars, or opening small businesses like snack bars, previously illegal. Estrada dreams of a more flexible society, where multiple political parties can form or independent feminist magazines can be published, without fear. In such a world, replying “I want to be Messi” would not offend, recognizing that another's respectful desire is no threat.
These changes, though not always as desired, are possible, the writer concludes, for those who stay, emigrate, or seek transformation.
