Matandang lalaki gustong ibalik ang pinaboran niyang tagapag-alaga pagkatapos ng pakikipag-ugnayan ng pamilya

Isang 80-anyos na lalaki na nagngangalang Manny ang nagpadala ng liham sa advice column ng Rappler, na nag-e-explain kung paano niya gustong ibalik ang kanyang pinaboran na tagapag-alaga na si Angel pagkatapos siyang tanggalin ng kanyang mga anak.

Si Manny, na nagkaroon ng stroke sa edad na 75 pagkatapos mamatay ang kanyang asawa, ay hindi naapektuhan sa kanyang mental health at hindi nakakaapekto sa kanyang pagsasalita. Gumagamit siya ng cane o wheelchair kapag kinakailangan, ngunit hindi siya nangangailangan ng financial support mula sa kanyang mga anak, bagaman masaya siya sa 'baon' na natatanggap niya mula sa kanila. Noong umabot siya sa 80 taong gulang, ipinatupad ng kanyang mga anak na kumuha ng tagapag-alaga, at si Angel lamang ang nagustuhan niya dahil mas batang walang credentials at mas nakikinig sa kanya.

Biglang umalis si Angel tatlong buwan na ang nakalipas nang walang paliwanag; natuklasan ni Manny na hiniling ng kanyang mga anak na umalis ito at ngayon ay nasa Nueva Ecija na. Napapalitan na niya ng tatlong iba pang tagapag-alaga ngunit hindi siya nasasatisfy. Nang sabihin niya sa kanyang mga anak na kukunin niya si Angel, pinagbawalan siya nito.

Sa tugon nina Jeremy Baer at Dr. Margarita Holmes, tinanong ni Baer kung bakit pinayagan ni Manny ang mga ito at iminungkahi ang family meeting upang maipahayag ang kanyang independence. Sinabi nina Holmes na kung kaya niyang sariwang makipag-ugnayan kay Angel, gawin niya ito agad upang ipakita ang kanyang autonomy, at binanggit ang kahalagahan ng social health batay sa aklat ni Kasley Killam.

Ipinahayag din nila na maaaring power struggle ito sa pagitan ng mag-ama, kung saan si Angel ay naging unwitting pawn.

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