Study finds passionate love happens about twice in a lifetime

A new study from the Kinsey Institute reveals that people experience passionate love an average of 2.05 times in their lifetime. Based on 10,036 single individuals aged 18 to 99, the research indicates that such intense love is rare for most.

During Valentine week, discussions on love are prominent. A study by the Kinsey Institute in the US surveyed 10,036 single people on how many times they have felt deep love in their lives. The research found that on average, individuals experience passionate love 2.05 times.

The study revealed that 14 percent of participants had never felt such love, 28 percent once, 30 percent twice, 17 percent three times, and 11 percent four or more times. Lead researcher Dr. Amanda Gesselman stated, "People often talk about love, but for the first time it has been found out how many times it happens in life. For most people, passionate love is an experience that happens only a few times."

There was little difference based on age or gender. Experiences were similar for men and women, though older individuals reported slightly more instances. Data from the Kinsey Institute and dating company Match shows that 60 percent of single people in the US consider themselves very romantic. 51 percent say they feel more pressure to find love than previous generations, while 73 percent believe films, TV, and social media create unrealistic expectations.

This study helps relationship counselors better understand love lives, emphasizing that beyond passionate love, forms like friendship, trust, and understanding are equally important.

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